I can’t believe it’s been almost 3 years since I wrote something … after taking some time off from stressful days at work, suddenly I’m blogging away. Too many sleepless nights I guess … or maybe I just have a lot to say these days.
A lot of people have asked me lately why I’m still single, why I’m not married, why I’m not worried about it, blah, blah, blah and etc. Well, my response is simple. I’m not worried about it. Me being with a partner doesn’t make me, me. My happiness does not depend on whether I am married or not. My life is rich and full already, I am already happy. I know that at some point in our lives we all ask ourselves if we are destined to be “alone”. Well, I feel the answer is no. We all secretly yearn for that one person we can share our lives with. Someone we can experience the world with. Someone we can open our hearts to and love freely.
Flip side: “Our only relationship is with ourselves and God – every other relationship stems from there.” I constantly remind myself of these words regularly. They strike a chord deep within me that resonate through my entire being. “I am never alone” is what I find myself saying. Ironically, I find myself believing this too.
There is an entire Universe out there and I am just insignificant part of it. Yet, I am never alone … I sure ain’t gonna let it … because I’ve got my circle of influence, my circle of interests, and my circle of family and friends. Each of us carving out our own path in life. I look at it this way: I am surrounded and filled by the energy of others. Love, Joy, Laughter. My family and friends radiate this energy (especially when I need it) and I gladly and gratefully receive it. In turn I’m passing it along to some unsuspecting soul in whatever positive form it may take.
This giving and receiving is what connects us. Thus, we are never alone.
Yes, I am single but someday that will change … it will! … In the meantime – I’m happy and I’m in love … with life itself.